NO MORE TO SAY

Just when the year is about to end.
Just when everything's all doing great.
Just when everyone is all happy and having fun.
Just when everyone became friends..

SOMEONE or people will ruin THAT SPECIAL happening.

Why do people get too attached?
Why do people tend to stick to the person who do them wrong?
Why are people coward?
Why can't people just be happy for their friends?
Why can't people get over something?
Why can't people just move on instead of drowning themselves with their own tears and worries and despair?
Why can't they just choose happiness rather than sadness and hurt?
Why do people trust easily?


WHEN WILL PEOPLE LEARN?

I am no one to judge, and i stand nowhere to be involved. I am just one of the concerned friends of the people primarily involved and I am just a concerned citizen who wants to live in a world where in "happiness equates with sadness", Not "sadness defeats happiness".

Someone asked me: "Are you happy with your life right now Joyce?"
I answered: "Contented, Yes. But happy? Im doubtful."

When can someone actually say they are happy?
Is it when they have accomplished something they love or wanted to do?

Is it when you love? Is it when you are loved? Or is it both?

Is it when you are hurt then eventually came into your senses that it's just a trial? then that trial actually lead to your happiness?

Is it when you feel complete?

Is it when you feel so carefree at all?

Is it when you have all the money in the world?

OR IS IT WHEN YOU JUST FINALLY FELT THAT HAPPINESS, HAVE THAT HAPPINESS and you just can't explain, nor mention a single word, or even stutter a single letter, because you know its beyond the meaning of HAPPINESS?

People LOVE. But LOVE is an overrated word. Ask people what is LOVE. No one can give a concrete explanation what LOVE IS. IT IS BECAUSE LOVE AND HAPPINESS INTERTWINE?

ITS BEYOND THE WORDS' MEANING.

HURT. HURT can never be associated with love. They are of different category. AND HURT CAN NEVER EVER BE GIVEN IN LOVE. Their is pain, but not hurt.

PAIN is Something or someone that causes trouble; a source of unhappiness.
HURT is The act of damaging something or someone.
(ALL defined by wordweb).

PAIN is internal, while HURT is intentionally given, conscious or unconscious.

It's up to you what you prefer.
It's up to you to choose.
It's up to you to decide.

I have always kept in mind the Philosophy of LIVING. From someone and from books, and that is.. THE ULTIMATE GOAL IN YOUR LIFE is to find happiness.

WHATEVER CHOICE YOU CHOOSE AND DECIDE, assure that it is for your own path to happiness. NOT HURT, NOT PAIN. Just LIFE and HAPPINESS.

** I wish that before this year ends, everyone will be enlightened on what path to take. The right decisions and choices to make. I wish all to be happy. Even the happiest man on EARTH could be happier than he is now. **

Could I Have Missed my CHANCE?

I got really tired of self-pitying. I don't actually mind now if I am single or not.. Im single.. and that's it. I'm not going to throw words again that will make me pity myself again..

I have not been myself lately.. don't ask why.
And while I am deliberately thinking of what my future would be like?
whether if i get married or not.. THIS SONG, I HEARD.

I kinda felt a light, positive spirit about it (you know, the LOVE thing.. the one everyone gets cheesy about once and a while)...

I still wish mine will come along..

A LOVE SONG FOR NO ONE
by: John Mayer

Staying home alone on a friday
Flat on the floor looking back
On old love
Or lack thereof
After all the crushes are faded
And all my wishful thinking was wrong
Im jaded
I hate it

Im tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here
So tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here

Searching all my days just to find you
Im not sure who Im looking for
Ill know it
When I see you
Until then, Ill hide in my bedroom
Staying up all night just to write
A love song for no one

Im tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here
So tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here

I could have met you in a sandbox
I could have passed you on the sidewalk
Could I have missed my chance
And watched you walk away?

I could have met you in a sandbox
I could have passed you on the sidewalk
Could I have missed my chance
And watched you walk away?

Im tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here
So tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here
Youll be so good
Youll be so good for me